To My Friends

to my friends who are not single
love isn't about becoming somebody else's "perfect person"
it's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be...

to my friends who are engaged
the true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together...
but how good you are for each other...

to my friends who are married
love it's not about "it's your fault" but "i'm sorry"
not "where are you" but "i'm right here for you"
not "how could you" but "i understand"
not " i wish you were here" but "i'm thankful you are"

to my friends who are heartbroken
heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to go..
the challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks, but to learn from them..

to my friends who are possessive
it breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else..
but it's more painful to know that the one you llove is unhappy with you..

to my friends who are afraid to confess
love hurts when you broke up with someone..
it hurts even more when someone broke up with you
but love hurts the most
when the person you love the most has no idea
how you feel about him/her

to my friends who are still holding on
a sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love,
only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be 
and that you have wasted years on someone who doesn't worth it
if that person doesn't worth it now, it's not going to be worth it a year or 10 years after.....